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给女儿最好的保护是极限教育,给儿子最好的保护是阳光教育

Looking at the news every day, there are always a lot of unfortunate things happening to children who are not deeply involved.

In the previous paragraph, there was a sensation in the media circle. A sophomore girl who was not deeply involved was attacked by a journalist during her internship.

This kind of tragedy has not only been repeated. Parents, besides full anger, should think more about how we should educate children on the issue of self-security protection.

A 17-year-old girl once went home in the middle of the summer.

After a few days, her father asked her to go out to drink and said to her: "Try to drink, Dad will take responsibility to bring you home, feel free to drink!"

On that day, they ran a total of five stores to eat and drink, but by the time the last one, the girl had no impression and was drunk on the bar.

Afterwards, my father called a taxi to take her home.

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The next day, the girl woke up and found her father going out early, but left a letter to her. The letter says:

Did you remember how much alcohol you drunk last night and got drunk? A total of two glasses of beer and five cups of angle HIGH (a mixed type of wine), this is your limit.

There are many bad people in the world. I can't protect you from you forever, so let you know your limits and learn to protect yourself. I believe you can do it.

The father did not educate his daughter in a tough way, but used a special way to give his daughter a lesson.

Indeed, what is most needed for a girl’s self-protection education is a kind of extreme education.

Parents try to protect all her daughters for ten or twenty years, but the child can't stay in your field of vision all the time. She will grow up.

xx当你长大后,社会不会给女孩太多的反复试验机会。一旦他们在那里,他们将是致命的。因此,女孩需要有一个底线,以了解他们可以承受的限制,并保护自己不要理解他们的极限。

有一个14岁的男孩在放学后很长一段时间在亭子里看到了一本书,但他没有那么多钱,所以他敢把书藏在怀里。

谁知道刚刚转过身来的老板发现,老板把他送到派出所,几名警察依次审问他,还打电话给孩子的父亲。

很快,孩子的父亲到了。男孩低下头,静静地等待父亲的责骂。

“我认为这一定是一种误解。”父亲微弱地打开了:

“因为我非常了解我的儿子,他是一个非常明智的孩子。他一定非常喜欢这本书,只因为他没有足够的钱。你不能这样做。我可以买三次。这个书结束了。“

然后父亲拿出钱包。那男孩惊呆了。他看着他的父亲。他的父亲看着他。他的眼里没有责备。有些人只是喜欢和怜悯。

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当他离开警察局时,他的父亲停了下来。他带着孩子害羞而动人的脸说:

儿子,人们在这一生中会或多或少地犯错误。听着,算了吧!

不要让它在你心中留下阴影,学习和生活得好,只要你将来不犯同样的错误,你仍然是一个以你父母为荣的孩子!

在那之后,他庄严地把这本书交给了孩子。男孩忍不住泪流满面,他的父亲深情地把他抱在怀里。

对男孩最好的保护是阳光教育。

一个男孩的成长将不可避免地犯错误。如果你在犯了错误之后未能及时得到正确的教育,但是你受到社会中太多负面因素的影响,很容易误入歧途并陷入阴影的泥潭。

在这个时候,我们需要父母的阳光教育,教育孩子学会忍受,让孩子从错误中吸取教训,并对他们的行为负责。

面对儿童的一些不良行为,父母需要更多的逻辑积极管理。在指出错误的同时,他们也应该指出孩子的一些优点。

让孩子们学会欣赏自己,让自己变得更好。这是教会男孩自我保护的升华。